POSTAL MAILING ADDRESS GUARANTEE
We do our very best to keep our addresses current.
product that is sold is information only, specifically the
postal mailing address information of the women who have
published their personal advertisements here. Postal mailing
address information is confidential. As such once the
information is delivered to you, there can be no returns or
refunds. Choose carefully when ordering. Postal mailing
address information of these women is strictly for personal
use for penpal correspondence.
After you receive your postal addresses, mail your
letters. In the unlikely event you receive an invalid postal
address from us, we will replace it with TWO new
addresses/codes of your choice FREE OF CHARGE! (Return
to Sender, Address Unknown, Etc). Simply send us the
returned piece of mail as verification that the lady should be
removed from our database. Or, you may scan it and send
to us by e-mail attachment. Also include the two code numbers
of the ladies that you would like as replacements. Your
replacements will be sent to you the same day that we receive
We guarantee that your letter, properly addressed, stamped,
etc will get to the lady. However, we make no guarantee
as to how she will react to your letter. The actions of the
LADIES advertised here are not guaranteed. Whether
she finds you attractive and answers your letter really
depends how good a job you have done selecting a gal that
matches you, and how good a first impression you made
with the letter you wrote. Whether she
chooses to reply or not, and what happens between the two of
you as consenting adults is completely outside the scope of
our information service.
The Postal mailing address
information also comes with two further guarantees: that
within 30 days after purchase, the lady who published the
advertisement is still accepting new pen pals and that the
personal information provided by the lady materially
represents her situation.
A. In the case of a lady
advising she is not accepting any new pen pals, you get
TWO replacement addresses of your choice FREE OF CHARGE.
The woman must state she is not accepting ANY new pen pals;
perhaps she is engaged, or no longer cares for correspondence,
etc. Just send us the written message the lady sent you,
and indicate your replacement selections. If she is
accepting new pen pals but chooses not to accept you, no
replacement addresses are provided.
B. In the case of material
misrepresentation by the woman, you get TWO replacement
addresses of your choice FREE OF CHARGE. Just send us
whatever documentation is available to indicate the situation,
and indicate your replacement selections.
TELEPHONE NUMBERS AND EMAIL ADDRESSES
We DO NOT guarantee telephone numbers or
email addresses. Sometimes ladies provide this
information together with their postal addresses. But, due to
some factors such as inbox full, e-mail address suspended,
telephone disconnection etc., we cannot guarantee these. They
are provided to you FREE OR CHARGE, if available, and only
when purchasing a postal (snail mail) address. Please notify
us if you do happen to receive an invalid email address or
phone number. We like to keep our database as current as
SUGGESTIONS FOR BETTER RESULTS
1. The more ladies you initially choose and write to the
better chance you have to find a soul mate. In the beginning
select and write to many DOZENS of ladies, never just one or
2. Select ladies who are listed on
the NEW LADIES SECTION (On the search function, check “Show
New Ladies Only”). These ladies are new and as of the last
bi weekly website update have NOT had their address sold for
the first time yet. You
may also select other ladies on our database. They’re all
UPDATED. We guarantee that ALL ladies are available and
seeking pen pals. Although, some ladies have had received 5 or
more letters from men, it does not MEAN that she’s NO LONGER
available. A lady only will reply to a man that she finds
interesting. If you are the 6th man to write her,
that “interesting man” for her could be YOU. There is an
instance that a lady will re-join our website after 6 months
or a year. There might still some ladies you see from the past
that are still there on our database and were updated. Those
ladies have re-joined our website and requested their image
and information be re-posted. More likely, these ladies
haven’t found their ideal soul mates yet. It is not EASY for
some ladies just like with some MEN. Some Men and WOMEN in the
world take a LONG TIME AND JOURNEY to find the IDEAL ONES. For
some it may take a FEW MONTHS but for OTHERS, it may take a
YEAR or so to find that SPECIAL person.
3. Don't use her telephone number.
Write her first via postal mail, and introduce yourself. Ask
her permission to call. Ask her what times; dates, and
telephone numbers are best and most convenient for her to
receive your call. If she agrees then your call will be
4. Emails are extremely impersonal.
Most women especially those with free email accounts
change them regularly as they start to receive Spam and
abusive messages. Introduce yourself nicely via postal mail
with enclosed photographs. Start by showing that you are
"for real". Once your sincerity is established, then
emails work well.
5. Don't drop in. If you are
fortunate enough to travel overseas you probably will get a
wonderful opportunity to meet your pen pal in person. Make
sure that you are a "welcome" guest. Contact her
well in advance, let her know you are coming and
coordinate details together. She will probably need extra time
to find a friend to "chaperone" the first meeting as
well. Dropping in, with no warning generally frightens
and embarrasses the woman and her family. The worst possible
way to begin a relationship is to give the impression of a
Some Tips On
Corresponding With Asian Women:
hope these tips will help you in your correspondence with
Vietnam women. We wish you all the best, and if you finally
find and marry the girl of your dreams, please let us know.
letters to as many ladies as you want. The more you send,
the more chances for you to receive a reply from
anyone of them.
yourself properly. Don’t brag about yourself. These
ladies don’t want a boastful man to correspond with. It
is important to be yourself in introducing yourself to
a picture of yourself. Avoid sending nude shots. This can
be a turn-off for them. Remember, most of these women are
very religious and conservative.
with postage costs. This is a big help to them to cover
postage expenses. It is nice if you send Air Mail Stamps.
(Optional Only). Do not send cash/money as it is
especially subject to loss or theft in the mail. Do not
send cash/money or anything material to a lady if you're
not sure about her. It is better to know the lady
longer before you decide to do this. Be cautious about
ladies who are asking for money or material things. We
take no responsibility with your action (men and women).
her about your intentions in corresponding with her. Most
of these ladies are marriage-minded and they expect more
an interest in getting to know her better. Ask some
questions about her and tell her that you’re glad to
answer her future questions about you.
sure to reply promptly to all of her letters. In most
cases, it takes four to six weeks for a reply to your
letter. Be patient in waiting for her reply.
her a letter if you want to discontinue writing her.
If you feel that she is not the right girl you’re
looking for, write her a letter if you decide to
discontinue writing to her or to someone. In that way, she
will not expect you to write her back. The best thing to
do is to tell her the truth.
all of your letters. Tell her to save all of her letters
because this will help with the immigration process. The
immigration will ask you for some proof that you’re
corresponding or you’re engaged either by letters or by
pictures together. As a lady, she is expecting
that you will be true to your promises. Don't
promise to visit her until you are willing to do so.
your address and their address correctly, and don’t
forget to include the country on both addresses because
you’re writing internationally.